Cover your private parts! This is one of the phrases that sicken me all the time.

I hear this a lot, and I’m quite sure that you do too. What are my private parts? Are you referring to my vagina? My nipples? My butt? Oh, butts nowadays are not a big issue, right? That’s what we all see on every beach. Oh, you mean the butt hole is the private part? I see. But hey, why are they private? Because they are sexual. So, you mean the mouth is not sexual? What about the hands, legs, butt cheeks, etc., are they also not sexual? Well, you can use them in sex, but the private parts are more specialized for sex. Oh, are they?  How so? I feed through my nipples, I pee through my vagina, and you know what we do through our butts too. Well, that’s right, but they are special! Special?! Are those my only special parts? So, my face is not special? My arms are not special? My whole body is not special?

Women in the middle east

I came from the Middle East, and there, the whole woman’s body is considered “Haram” or “Awrat.” That means women are forbidden to show any part of their body to anyone but to their husband or to a tiny group of their close family. I think we all have seen how women dress in Afghanistan, Iran, Saudia Arabia, Pakistan, and many other countries in that part of the world. They simply believe that women are sex objects. I want to challenge those who use the term “Private Parts.” You may need to consider dressing like women in the Middle East. At that time, I will believe you when you use the word “special.” This goes for both men and women, by the way. 

Saoussen Ben Cheikh wrote a very good article about women in the middle east you may like to take a look on it. it’s called

Across the Middle East, many women face a double threat: Abuser inside, virus outside

I went over a lot of details in my series of The Trigger Of Nudism when I talk about my own story.

My Point

OK, here is my point; I feel very frustrated when I hear this kind of discussion. It’s so naïve and ignorant to label a full human by specific body parts. It’s even worse when you consider yourself a sex object. When you think that you have private or special parts, you’re admitting that you are no more than a sex toy for others. Come on! Humanity came a very long way, no need to go back to the Dark Ages. It’s time for all of us to wake up and free our minds and bodies.